How to be better -- borrowed answers from Facebook...

1. Do What You Know Is Right

Always be courageous enough to do what your heart knows is right, especially if it concerns someone else’s well-being.

When we do things we know are wrong, we also damage ourselves at a fundamental level, and we vibrate on a lower frequency that typically makes others wary of us.

Meanwhile, when we act ethically and responsibly, people intuitively know we can be trusted.

2. Cut Out Superficial Gossip

If you’re too busy judging others and gossiping about them, you’ll miss so many of the more profound and fulfilling things that life can offer. In addition, you’ll radiate a certain dishonesty.

Meanwhile, if you focus on talking about more meaningful subjects and sharing ideas, others will be attracted to your vibrant mind and respectful attitude.

3. Elevate Other People

If you help others to see the best in themselves and nurture their talents, you’ll be a radiant and compassionate presence that i instantly attractive.

There’s often so much negative thinking in the world that this positive, supportive approach is a rare and precious commodity for many people.

4. Embrace Your Unique Traits

Don’t hide the more unusual, quirky parts of yourself—you might be surprised by just how attractive these aspects of your character can be! In addition, when you embrace everything about yourself, others will immediately be drawn to your authenticity.

Plus, if you fully accept who you are, you’ll likely discover you have a whole host of unique gifts for the world—gifts that no one else can offer.

5. Act Out Of Passion

When you live your life motivated by duty or obligation, there’s a sense in which you stop living at all.

If you want to be the kind of person that others flock to be with, you need to act on your passions and have fun. Listen to your heart, find out what drives you, and follow that impulse.

You’ll soon be joined by like minded people who want to share your journey.

6. Know You Don’t Always Have To Be Right

It’s great to hold fast to your convictions and be firm in the face of negativity from those who might want to bring you down, but you’ll only bring more bitterness into the world if you can’t accept that you don’t always have to be right.

Further, remember that what’s right for you may not be so for someone else—be gentle and open-minded when other people talk about how they want to live.

7. Look For Solutions

When life throws up a new roadblock or challenge, look for creative new ways to circumvent or move through it. Flexibility in the face of difficulty will help you grow with change, instead of being defeated by it.

And there’s something deeply appealing about optimistic, determined people who always find a way to learn and evolve—potential romantic partners in particular may notice this trait, which suggests you’ll work to sustain and improve a relationship rather than letting it stagnate.

8. Believe In Your Dreams

If you commit to your dreams and take them seriously, you’re already one step closer to turning them into your reality.

Allow yourself to feel excited about your future, and this will not only improve everyday life but also make you irresistible and inspiring to others.

9. Learn From The Past, But Don’t Be Trapped By It

It’s hard to attract new people into your life when half of your mind is still stuck in the past, ruminating over things that you can no longer change. If you want to be magnetically appealing, you need to find ways to anchor yourself in the present moment.

It’s vital to take past experiences seriously and to learn from your difficulties, but practice affirmations or journaling that help you let go of regret or guilt.

10. Know That You Are Already Irresistibly Attractive

In so many cases, limiting beliefs or cruel things said in childhood can hold us back from believing that we are beautiful and deserving of love.

In the end, it’s only your own doubts and anxieties that are stopping you from exuding the true level of attractiveness you possess.

Acknowledge your very best qualities, remind yourself of them regularly, and live in the knowledge that others can be trusted to see your beauty.