Some advice about advice...
Never take the advice from someone who won't be there to suffer the consequences with you. Never take the advice of someone who has not had your kind of trouble. Never take advice too seriously from those who have not been severely tested. Never take advice from someone you wouldn’t trade places with. Never take advice from people who have never done what they’re writing (or talking) about. Never take advice from someone who is not generally happy. Never take advice from someone who has never been in love. Never take advice from someone who profits (real or imaginary) from your decision. (Take notes on this one.) Never take advice from people who succeeded, but did so with dishonest means or by luck or a gift. Never take advice from the people who live lives you do not fully respect. Never take advice from someone you want to impress or someone you are afraid of. OK...that's my advice....for now...